·       Who doesn’t start out this way?


·       What does she want to get out of sports? Fun, friends, success, life skills, scholarship, self-esteem, glory…


·       What do her parents want out of sports?


·       Who will she become as an athlete and as a person through sports?


·       Will she be competing ten years from now?


·       What will she reflect on fifty years from now?


·       If this was your daughter swimming and she could either gain extraordinary success or extraordinary character out of the sport, which would you chose and why?